Are women really that hard to approach or to talk to, especially if their testament of immaculate divine engineering. Try to picture a fine specimen of a woman, let’s say casually walking around a mall. With that picture in mind try to amplify the surroundings a little, I would like to think that the energy created by the pool of guys that steal glances or blatantly start staring at her would set off a nuclear bomb. Now that being said I surely hope you guys get the REAL impression that women are the epitome of sensuality, so let’s start getting to the reality of things, how does one APPROACH Aphrodite. In my humble personal opinion approaching a gorgeous fox is the hard part.
I consider myself an aspiring up and comer, you know the average Joe. Like me, I’m sure there are loads of guys in our beloved country who share the same opinion about themselves. That’s nice and all but how does this tango with trying to get the perfect 10. Well thankfully I have the curiosity of cat in which will motivate me to swim in uncharted waters. I am going to test the fabric of social interaction with the better half by me randomly approaching local beauties with the intention of asking them simple straight forward questions about social interaction and men, Malaysian men. I know this rather sounds obtuse but do continue to read.
Before I a get verbal crucifixion from all you ladies and some men, I would like to point out that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. This entire whatever you want to call it is more like a personal experiment of mine. I understand that some people might find this offensive and I personally understand that beauty is much deeper than a pretty face. But let’s face the fact that there is a hypocrite in everyone. I have a personal analogy that I think will give you an idea of what I am trying to convey. “If you come across a flower; a flower that has features that are so revolting that it causes an eye sore and it makes you think twice to pick it up and smell it for the flower it is; would you honestly pick it up and smell its godly fragrance?” If you are one of those individuals who ignore the physical appearance of it and smell it for the flower it is then kudos to you, you’re on a level that I think very few humans achieve. I write this for the men who think impulsively, you know the way their programmed to observe prominent female physical features that corresponds to fertility (which sadly includes me), so help us guys help you ladies. I hope that all you gorgeous ladies (whatever you may look like) keep an open and exciting mind.
My main idea is to try to understand a women’s perspective. I know you get all this famous magazines that have all the research on how a man should court a woman, personal interviews and blah blah blah, but how much does this help. I am trying to make this simple and straight forward, approaching this like a reality show which focuses on the everyday women. It will be my humble attempt to try to get tips, insights, advice or whatever information that will come in handy for us guys.
Besides the fundamental idea of approaching a woman, I would also like to curb the social stigma surrounding beautiful women that I feel some men and women have. I put a safe bet that there are vast quantities of men who have initial negative impressions towards pretty faced beauties at first sight; this is the scenario that some women have told me personally. Too my conclusion, I think that naturally if we can’t have or get something that we really want, we tend to give up and almost always put a negative barrier towards us and that something. Some guys when they feel that they can’t approach a women, will often end up making statements such as, “She is a gold digger”, “She must be really high maintenance”, “I bet she sleeps around”, “Look at the way she dresses, she must want all the attention” and/or “She wears too much makeup”. I must admit that I am no saint; I have honestly passed such comments and probably would still say such things without really thinking deeply. I am not trying to criticize anyone; I am just trying to shed some light on the subject. We are human after all.
One last thing I would like to point out, I would not just go for pretty faces at every opportunity I get, I would try to look for intellectuals, people who have a good attitude and people who have character. So please do stay tuned on my social adventure.
The Experiment
Rather sophisticated I know, anyhow this brainchild of mine is going to be conducted as follows:-
- My personal target is to approach 100 Malaysian women; it all depends on the hopefully positive feedback I get from this.
- I am going to approach some attractive ladies around KL for me to ask some questions, fingers crossed I hope I don’t get a five finger salute.
- The questions and answers will be revealed after each successful interview so to speak.
- The juicy bits, each individual beauty are going to be numbered on what I call an attractive index and a financial wealth index.
- The attractive index will include attributes such as; 1) Attractive, 2) A notch above attractive, 3) Literal Head Turner, 4) Magazine cover material, 5) Scarlett Johansson, she is what Aphrodite should be in my opinion.
- Every woman that I sort of interview will have to rate themselves. Their own rating will be compared against my own rating towards them and the final score will be the mean average. Just to get a broader perspective.
- The Wealth scale will be rated solely by them. This scale will represent the financial status of each interviewed ladies. The guys reading this will have a clearer picture on the participants from a financial stand point.
- The Wealth Scale; 1) Moderate income, 2) Means to live comfortably, 3) Living above needs.
- NO PERSONAL INFORMATION will be displayed, the interviews are completely anonymous.
- All the ladies that are interviewed will be numbered. For example No.1, No.2 No.3 and until the number 100.
- This Numbers will also represent the main title for each interview session.
It will be my personal satisfaction that this guide will help narrow the gap on social misconceptions that I think a lot of us have and more importantly help guys smoothly approach the ladies (Don Draper style). I also hope that this guide will help make Malaysian men and women more at ease with their self-esteem and help nurture a more matured sense of respect and understanding for both polarities. More importantly I really hope you guys whoever you may be really enjoy my alphabetical artistry. Please feel free to contribute your ideas or ask me any questions regarding this guide, as I greatly appreciate the feedback. Throughout the course of this experiment I am guessing that some of the initial concepts of this experiment will be altered in accordance with response I receive. Now let’s get to the business end of things shall we!
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